顏回是孔子(zi)最得(de)意的(de)弟子(zi),極(ji)富(fu)學問(wen)。《論語·雍(yong)也》說他“……一簞(dan)食,一瓢飲,在陋巷,人不堪其憂,回也不改其樂(le)……”。為人謙(qian)遜好學,“不遷怒,不貳(er)過”。孔子(zi)稱(cheng)贊他“賢哉,回也”,“回也,其心三月不違仁”(《雍(yong)也》)。不幸(xing)早死。
顏回素(su)以(yi)德(de)行著稱。嚴格按照孔(kong)子(zi)關于(yu)“仁”“禮”的(de)要求,“敏于(yu)事而慎于(yu)言”。故孔(kong)子(zi)常稱贊顏回具有君子(zi)四德(de),即強(qiang)于(yu)行義,弱于(yu)受(shou)諫,怵于(yu)待(dai)祿,慎于(yu)治身(shen)。他(ta)終生(sheng)所向往的(de)就是出現一(yi)個“君臣一(yi)心,上下和睦(mu),豐衣足食,老少康(kang)健,四方咸服,天下安寧”的(de)無戰爭(zheng)、無饑餓(e)的(de)理想社(she)會。
公元前481年,顏回先孔子而去世,葬于魯城東防山(shan)前。孔子對他(ta)的早逝感到極為(wei)悲(bei)痛,不(bu)禁哀(ai)嘆說;“噫!天喪予(yu)!天喪予(yu)!”
顏回一生(sheng)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)做過官,也沒(mei)(mei)有(you)留下傳世之作,他的(de)只言(yan)片語(yu),收集(ji)在《論語(yu)》等書中(zhong),其(qi)思想與(yu)孔(kong)子的(de)思想基本是一致的(de)。后世尊其(qi)為“復(fu)圣”。
幸虧有顏回(hui),才(cai)使得(de)孔(kong)子與(yu)儒家之仁(ren)不(bu)(bu)止(zhi)于(yu)(yu)過(guo)于(yu)(yu)墮落。孔(kong)子弟(di)子真(zhen)得(de)其精髓(sui)者不(bu)(bu)過(guo)二(er)三子,顏回(hui)第一,卻早逝,否則,中國大概也可(ke)(ke)以有與(yu)古希(xi)臘師徒三賢(xian)蘇格拉底、柏拉圖與(yu)亞里士(shi)多德相(xiang)媲美(mei)的(de)機會(hui),可(ke)(ke)惜顏回(hui)早逝!其余(yu)弟(di)子皆不(bu)(bu)肖,真(zhen)得(de)其傳(chuan)之二(er)三子,曾(ceng)點死于(yu)(yu)孔(kong)子之前,唯余(yu)詹臺,卻不(bu)(bu)得(de)孔(kong)子賞識,此后(hou)孔(kong)子一脈式微。
政治志向
顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)以(yi)(yi)舜(shun)(shun)為(wei)志(zhi)。《孟子(zi)(zi)·滕文公》(上(shang))記其(qi)(qi)語,曰:“舜(shun)(shun)何(he)人(ren)也,禹何(he)人(ren)也;有為(wei)者(zhe)(zhe)亦(yi)若是(shi)!”顯然,孟子(zi)(zi)以(yi)(yi)顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)與(yu)舜(shun)(shun)、稷“同道”。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)很贊賞舜(shun)(shun)“無(wu)(wu)為(wei)而(er)治”,即后來(lai)儒家所(suo)倡導的以(yi)(yi)“民”為(wei)本的“王道”政治思想。他(ta)嘗曰:“昔舜(shun)(shun)巧于(yu)使民,而(er)造父(fu)巧于(yu)使馬(ma)(ma)。舜(shun)(shun)不(bu)(bu)窮其(qi)(qi)民,造父(fu)不(bu)(bu)窮其(qi)(qi)馬(ma)(ma);是(shi)舜(shun)(shun)無(wu)(wu)失民,造父(fu)無(wu)(wu)失馬(ma)(ma)也。”(《荀子(zi)(zi)·哀(ai)公篇(pian)》)顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)既與(yu)舜(shun)(shun)“同道”、“所(suo)追同一(yi)”,所(suo)以(yi)(yi),當孔子(zi)(zi)要他(ta)和子(zi)(zi)路“各言爾志(zhi)”時,子(zi)(zi)路答(da)以(yi)(yi):“愿(yuan)車馬(ma)(ma)、衣(yi)輕裘(qiu),與(yu)朋友(you)共(gong),敝之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)而(er)無(wu)(wu)撼。”而(er)顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)則以(yi)(yi)“愿(yuan)無(wu)(wu)伐善(shan),無(wu)(wu)施(shi)勞”(《論語·公冶》)相答(da)。朱熹釋“無(wu)(wu)伐善(shan)、無(wu)(wu)施(shi)勞”曰:“伐,夸也,善(shan)謂有能(neng)。施(shi)亦(yi)張大之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)意(yi),勞謂有功(gong)。”(《論語集注》)以(yi)(yi)不(bu)(bu)夸己(ji)(ji)能(neng)、不(bu)(bu)揚己(ji)(ji)功(gong)為(wei)其(qi)(qi)意(yi)。但此(ci)說(shuo)不(bu)(bu)確。元(yuan)人(ren)所(suo)著《四書辯(bian)疑》駁朱說(shuo)云:“伐善(shan)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)善(shan),乃其(qi)(qi)己(ji)(ji)所(suo)長之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)總稱,伐忠、伐直、伐力、伐功(gong)、伐才、伐藝,通謂之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)伐善(shan)。又言伐無(wu)(wu)巧,止(zhi)是(shi)不(bu)(bu)伐之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)一(yi)事。分而(er)為(wei)二,顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)志(zhi),豈別無(wu)(wu)可道焉?……該‘無(wu)(wu)施(shi)勞’者(zhe)(zhe),不(bu)(bu)以(yi)(yi)勞苦(ku)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)事加(jia)于(yu)民也。夫(fu)勞而(er)不(bu)(bu)恤,乃古今(jin)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)通患。……顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)言,于(yu)世厚(hou)矣。”此(ci)說(shuo)極是(shi)。所(suo)以(yi)(yi),顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)這(zhe)里所(suo)言之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)己(ji)(ji)志(zhi),乃是(shi)欲內修己(ji)(ji)德、外施(shi)愛民之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)政。這(zhe)與(yu)舜(shun)(shun)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)“無(wu)(wu)為(wei)而(er)治”正相仿佛。在顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)看(kan)來(lai),唯以(yi)(yi)此(ci)志(zhi)施(shi)行于(yu)天下(xia),方(fang)能(neng)實現孔子(zi)(zi)所(suo)謂“老(lao)者(zhe)(zhe)安之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi),少者(zhe)(zhe)懷之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi),朋友(you)信(xin)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)”(《論語·公冶》)的社會理想。由此(ci)可見,顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)在政治志(zhi)向上(shang)不(bu)(bu)僅有淑世濟(ji)人(ren)的入世情懷,而(er)且頗具早期儒家的民本主義精神(shen)。
顏回的一生,大多為追隨孔(kong)子奔走于(yu)(yu)六國(guo),歸(gui)魯后亦未入仕,而(er)(er)是窮居(ju)陋(lou)(lou)巷。他生活于(yu)(yu)天下大亂(luan)、禮崩樂(le)壞的社會,儒家的仁(ren)義(yi)之(zhi)志(zhi)(zhi)、王者(zhe)之(zhi)政(zheng)常被斥為愚儒、譏為矯飾,“世(shi)以混濁(zhuo)莫能(neng)用(yong)(yong)”(《史記(ji)(ji)·儒林列傳》)的社會環(huan)境中,絲毫(hao)不(bu)愿(yuan)改(gai)其(qi)(qi)志(zhi)(zhi),仍“尚三(san)教(jiao)(即夏教(jiao)忠、殷教(jiao)敬、周教(jiao)文)”,期于(yu)(yu)“承衰救弊,欲民反(fan)正(zheng)道”(《白虎通(tong)·三(san)教(jiao)》)。王符稱贊他:“困饉于(yu)(yu)郊(jiao)野(ye),守志(zhi)(zhi)篤(du)固(gu),秉節(jie)不(bu)虧。寵祿(lu)不(bu)能(neng)固(gu),威武不(bu)能(neng)屈。雖有南面之(zhi)尊、公(gong)侯之(zhi)位,德義(yi)有殆(dai),禮義(yi)不(bu)班(ban),撓志(zhi)(zhi)如芷,負心若芬,固(gu)弗為也(ye)。”(《潛夫(fu)(fu)論》)若征(zheng)之(zhi)《史記(ji)(ji)·孔(kong)子世(shi)家》所記(ji)(ji)顏回語:“夫(fu)(fu)道之(zhi)不(bu)修也(ye),是吾(wu)之(zhi)丑也(ye);道即已大修而(er)(er)不(bu)用(yong)(yong),是有國(guo)者(zhe)之(zhi)丑也(ye)”,可(ke)知(zhi)王氏所言(yan)非虛(xu)。這(zhe)樣,顏回就只能(neng)終(zhong)生不(bu)仕,惟以“愿(yuan)貧如富、賤如貴,無(wu)勇(yong)而(er)(er)威,與士交通(tong),終(zhong)身無(wu)患難(nan)”(《韓詩(shi)外(wai)傳》卷十)自(zi)勉自(zi)慰(wei)。孔(kong)子贊其(qi)(qi):“用(yong)(yong)之(zhi)則行,舍之(zhi)則藏;惟我與爾(er)有是夫(fu)(fu)!”(《論語·述而(er)(er)》)“一簞食(shi)、一瓢飲(yin),在陋(lou)(lou)巷。人不(bu)堪其(qi)(qi)憂,回也(ye)不(bu)改(gai)其(qi)(qi)樂(le)!”(同(tong)(tong)上《雍也(ye)》)。顏回這(zhe)種注重志(zhi)(zhi)氣、追求真理(li)并以之(zhi)為樂(le)的精神(shen),與孔(kong)子本人“飯疏食(shi)飲(yin)水,曲肱而(er)(er)枕之(zhi),樂(le)亦在其(qi)(qi)中”(同(tong)(tong)上)實同(tong)(tong)一旨趣。
陋巷簡居
顏回所處的時代,已是中國(guo)的春秋(qiu)(qiu)末期(qi),不但周天子(zi)的王權繼(ji)續衰(shuai)落(luo),而且各(ge)諸(zhu)侯(hou)國(guo)的公室(shi)也(ye)衰(shuai)落(luo)了,由春秋(qiu)(qiu)初期(qi)的“禮(li)樂(le)征伐自(zi)(zi)諸(zhu)侯(hou)出”進而變為(wei)“禮(li)樂(le)征伐自(zi)(zi)大夫出”、“陪臣執國(guo)命”。
“陪(pei)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)”,即(ji)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)之(zhi)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)。如諸(zhu)侯國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)的(de)(de)卿(qing)大夫(fu)(fu)對諸(zhu)侯稱(cheng)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen),對天(tian)子(zi)(zi)(zi)則自(zi)稱(cheng)“陪(pei)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)”;卿(qing)大夫(fu)(fu)的(de)(de)家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)對諸(zhu)侯而(er)言(yan)也稱(cheng)“陪(pei)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)”。春秋時(shi)(shi)魯(lu)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)為“三桓(huan)”執政(zheng)(即(ji)魯(lu)桓(huan)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)后裔孟(meng)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)、叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)、季(ji)(ji)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)把持(chi)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)政(zheng)),至魯(lu)昭公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)、定(ding)(ding)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)、哀公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)時(shi)(shi),家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)勢力(li)興起,家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)叛(pan)(pan)(pan)亂(luan)屢有發生。魯(lu)昭公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)四年(nian)(公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)元(yuan)前538年(nian)),叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)豎牛(niu)軟禁并(bing)餓死(si)了(le)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)豹,設(she)計殺害了(le)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)豹的(de)(de)兩個嫡子(zi)(zi)(zi),擁立(li)(li)庶子(zi)(zi)(zi)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)諾。魯(lu)昭公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)十(shi)二(er)(er)年(nian)(公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)元(yuan)前530年(nian))季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)立(li)(li),對家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)南(nan)蒯未加禮(li)遇,南(nan)蒯便密謀(mou)以公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)子(zi)(zi)(zi)怒代(dai)替季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi):“吾出季(ji)(ji)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi),而(er)歸(gui)其室于公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong),子(zi)(zi)(zi)更(geng)其位,我以費(fei)(fei)為公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)。”(《左傳·昭公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)十(shi)二(er)(er)年(nian)》)事(shi)(shi)泄,南(nan)蒯以費(fei)(fei)叛(pan)(pan)(pan)歸(gui)齊。魯(lu)定(ding)(ding)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)五年(nian)至九年(nian)(公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)元(yuan)前505年(nian)至前501年(nian)),季(ji)(ji)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)專政(zheng),并(bing)把持(chi)了(le)魯(lu)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)政(zheng)。陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)之(zhi)亂(luan)是(shi)魯(lu)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)叛(pan)(pan)(pan)亂(luan)中持(chi)續(xu)最長、影(ying)響最大的(de)(de)一(yi)次叛(pan)(pan)(pan)亂(luan)。陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)的(de)(de)權(quan)勢凌駕(jia)于“三桓(huan)”之(zhi)上長達三、四年(nian)。陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)原(yuan)本為孟(meng)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)庶支(zhi),后為季(ji)(ji)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen),季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)時(shi)(shi)很受重用。季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)死(si),季(ji)(ji)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)斯(桓(huan)子(zi)(zi)(zi))立(li)(li),陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)已(yi)是(shi)季(ji)(ji)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)三世“元(yuan)老”。在處(chu)理季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)葬禮(li)上,陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)與季(ji)(ji)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)另一(yi)家(jia)(jia)臣(chen)(chen)(chen)(chen)仲(zhong)(zhong)梁懷(huai)發生爭執。陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)要求以魯(lu)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)之(zhi)寶玉“玙(yu)璠”為季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)斂尸,仲(zhong)(zhong)梁懷(huai)卻認為那是(shi)季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)在昭公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)遜國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)時(shi)(shi),代(dai)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)君(jun)行祭(ji)時(shi)(shi)所配(pei),今定(ding)(ding)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)已(yi)立(li)(li),不能再用。陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)便勾(gou)結費(fei)(fei)宰(zai)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)山(shan)(shan)不狃(niu),想聯(lian)合驅(qu)逐(zhu)仲(zhong)(zhong)梁懷(huai)。公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)山(shan)(shan)不狃(niu)初時(shi)(shi)并(bing)不以為意(yi),后因仲(zhong)(zhong)梁懷(huai)對其不敬重,才(cai)對陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)說:“子(zi)(zi)(zi)行之(zhi)乎(hu)!”陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)起事(shi)(shi),并(bing)囚(qiu)季(ji)(ji)桓(huan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)與公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)父(fu)(fu)文(wen)伯(季(ji)(ji)桓(huan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)從父(fu)(fu)昆弟),驅(qu)逐(zhu)了(le)仲(zhong)(zhong)梁懷(huai)。冬十(shi)月,陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)殺公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)何藐(miao)(季(ji)(ji)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)族人),與季(ji)(ji)桓(huan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)在稷門(men)內(nei)設(she)立(li)(li)盟誓(shi),舉行大規模詛咒(zhou),驅(qu)逐(zhu)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)父(fu)(fu)文(wen)伯與秦遄(季(ji)(ji)平(ping)子(zi)(zi)(zi)姑婿),徹底清除異己勢力(li),完(wan)全控制了(le)季(ji)(ji)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)家(jia)(jia)族。魯(lu)定(ding)(ding)公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)八年(nian)(公(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)元(yuan)前502年(nian)),陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)想滅掉“三桓(huan)”,讓(rang)季(ji)(ji)寤代(dai)替季(ji)(ji)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi),讓(rang)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)輒代(dai)替叔(shu)(shu)(shu)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi),自(zi)己代(dai)替孟(meng)孫(sun)(sun)(sun)氏(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)。陽(yang)(yang)(yang)虎(hu)(hu)(hu)(hu)借冬祭(ji)的(de)(de)機會起事(shi)(shi),事(shi)(shi)敗(bai),逃灌(guan)(今山(shan)(shan)東(dong)寧陽(yang)(yang)(yang)縣北稍(shao)西)、陽(yang)(yang)(yang)關,據兩地(di)反叛(pan)(pan)(pan)。
魯(lu)國(guo)經“三(san)桓專權”、“陪臣(chen)執國(guo)命”兩個(ge)時(shi)期后,不僅使宮(gong)室(shi)衰敗,魯(lu)國(guo)舊日的貴(gui)族(zu)(zu)世家也(ye)大都衰落(luo)。魯(lu)國(guo)的顏氏家族(zu)(zu)到顏路(lu)、顏回(hui)父子時(shi),除了(le)保有(you)祖傳的貴(gui)族(zu)(zu)身份(fen)及顏路(lu)的魯(lu)卿(qing)大夫頭銜外,便只有(you)陋巷簡樸的住宅及五十(shi)畝郭(guo)外之(zhi)田(tian)(tian),十(shi)畝郭(guo)內之(zhi)圃了(le)。在生(sheng)產(chan)力極為(wei)低(di)下的春(chun)秋時(shi)期,些(xie)許田(tian)(tian)產(chan)難以維(wei)持一個(ge)貴(gui)族(zu)(zu)家庭的生(sheng)計,顏回(hui)父子不得不省(sheng)去(qu)作為(wei)貴(gui)族(zu)(zu)家庭的一般(ban)性開支,簡居于陋巷。
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顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)“年十(shi)三,入(ru)孔(kong)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)之(zhi)門”時(shi),孔(kong)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)聚(ju)徒講(jiang)學已(yi)達(da)十(shi)三年之(zhi)久(jiu)。其聲望遠播于各(ge)諸(zhu)侯國(guo),其弟子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)、孟懿子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)、南宮敬叔等在魯(lu)國(guo)已(yi)小有(you)名(ming)氣(qi)。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)剛入(ru)孔(kong)門時(shi),在弟子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)中年齡最(zui)小,性(xing)格(ge)又(you)(you)內向,沉默寡言,才智較少外露(lu),有(you)人便覺得他有(you)些(xie)(xie)愚。馬骕《繹史(shi)》引(yin)《沖波傳》曰(yue):“子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)、顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)浴于洙水(shui),見(jian)五色鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao),顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)問(wen)(wen)(wen),子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)曰(yue):“熒熒之(zhi)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)。”后(hou)日,顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)與(yu)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)又(you)(you)浴于泗水(shui),更見(jian)前鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao),復(fu)問(wen)(wen)(wen)由:“識此鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)否?”子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)曰(yue):‘同同之(zhi)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)。’顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)曰(yue):“何一鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)而(er)二(er)名(ming)?”子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)曰(yue):“譬如絲綃,煮(zhu)之(zhi)則(ze)為(wei)帛,染(ran)之(zhi)則(ze)為(wei)皂(zao)。一鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)二(er)名(ming),不亦宜乎(hu)?”,其大意(yi)是(shi)(shi):有(you)一次顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)隨子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)去(qu)洙水(shui)洗澡(zao),見(jian)五色鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)在河中戲水(shui),便問(wen)(wen)(wen)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)是(shi)(shi)什么(me)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)。子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)回(hui)(hui)答(da)說(shuo):這(zhe)(zhe)叫熒熒鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)。過了些(xie)(xie)日子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi),顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)與(yu)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)又(you)(you)去(qu)泗水(shui)洗澡(zao),又(you)(you)在河中碰見(jian)五色鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao),顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)再(zai)次問(wen)(wen)(wen)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu):您認得這(zhe)(zhe)鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)嗎?子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)又(you)(you)答(da)曰(yue):這(zhe)(zhe)是(shi)(shi)同同鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)回(hui)(hui)反問(wen)(wen)(wen):為(wei)什么(me)一種鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)有(you)兩(liang)個名(ming)字(zi)呢(ni)?子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)路(lu)(lu)(lu)(lu)說(shuo):就像我(wo)們這(zhe)(zhe)里出產的魯(lu)絹(juan)一樣,用清水(shui)漂洗就是(shi)(shi)帛,用顏(yan)(yan)(yan)(yan)色染(ran)就是(shi)(shi)皂(zao),一種鳥(niao)(niao)(niao)(niao)兩(liang)個名(ming)字(zi)不是(shi)(shi)很自然嗎?
顏(yan)(yan)回(hui)的(de)(de)忠厚與(yu)(yu)內(nei)向,掩(yan)蓋了他的(de)(de)聰(cong)穎(ying)善思,就連孔(kong)子一時(shi)(shi)也(ye)難以斷定顏(yan)(yan)回(hui)的(de)(de)天資(zi)究竟屬于哪個層次。經過一段(duan)時(shi)(shi)間的(de)(de)深入(ru)觀察了解,孔(kong)子才指出顏(yan)(yan)回(hui)并不愚(yu)(yu)。《論(lun)語(yu)·為(wei)政》記(ji)載:“子曰:‘吾與(yu)(yu)回(hui)言終(zhong)日,不違,如愚(yu)(yu)。退而省(sheng)其私,亦足以發,回(hui)也(ye)不愚(yu)(yu)。'”顏(yan)(yan)回(hui)天資(zi)極(ji)聰(cong)慧,就連能言善辯的(de)(de)子貢也(ye)坦率(lv)地說不敢與(yu)(yu)顏(yan)(yan)回(hui)相比。《論(lun)語(yu)·公冶長》記(ji)載:“子謂子貢曰:‘女與(yu)(yu)回(hui)也(ye)孰愈?'對曰:‘賜也(ye)何(he)敢望回(hui)?回(hui)也(ye)聞一以知十,賜也(ye)聞一以知二。'子曰:‘弗(fu)如也(ye);吾與(yu)(yu)女弗(fu)如也(ye)。'”
顏(yan)回聰(cong)敏(min)過(guo)人(ren)(ren),虛(xu)(xu)心好(hao)學,使(shi)他較早地體(ti)認(ren)到孔(kong)(kong)子(zi)學說的精深博大(da),他對孔(kong)(kong)子(zi)的尊敬(jing)已超出一般弟子(zi)的尊師之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)情(qing)。他以(yi)尊崇千古圣哲之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)情(qing)尊崇孔(kong)(kong)子(zi),其親若父(fu)與(yu)子(zi)。《論(lun)語(yu)·子(zi)罕》曰:“顏(yan)淵喟然嘆曰:‘仰之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)彌高,鉆之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)彌堅。瞻(zhan)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)在(zai)(zai)前(qian),忽(hu)焉在(zai)(zai)后。夫子(zi)循(xun)(xun)循(xun)(xun)然善誘(you)人(ren)(ren),博我(wo)(wo)(wo)以(yi)文,約我(wo)(wo)(wo)以(yi)禮(li),欲罷不(bu)(bu)能。既竭(jie)吾才(cai),如有所立卓(zhuo)爾。雖(sui)欲從(cong)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi),末由也(ye)已。’”其大(da)意是:顏(yan)回曾感嘆地說:老(lao)(lao)師的道,越(yue)抬頭看,越(yue)覺得它(ta)高明,越(yue)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)力鉆研,越(yue)覺得它(ta)深奧。看著它(ta)似乎在(zai)(zai)前(qian)面(mian),等我(wo)(wo)(wo)們向前(qian)面(mian)尋找(zhao)時,它(ta)又(you)忽(hu)然出現在(zai)(zai)后面(mian)。老(lao)(lao)師的道雖(sui)然這樣高深和不(bu)(bu)易捉摸,可(ke)是老(lao)(lao)師善于有步驟地誘(you)導我(wo)(wo)(wo)們,用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)各種文獻(xian)知識來豐富我(wo)(wo)(wo)們,提高我(wo)(wo)(wo)們,又(you)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)一定的禮(li)來約束(shu)我(wo)(wo)(wo)們,使(shi)我(wo)(wo)(wo)們想(xiang)停(ting)止學習(xi)都(dou)不(bu)(bu)可(ke)能。我(wo)(wo)(wo)已經(jing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)(yong)盡我(wo)(wo)(wo)的才(cai)力,似乎已能夠獨(du)立工作(zuo)。要想(xiang)再向前(qian)邁一步,又(you)不(bu)(bu)知怎樣著手(shou)了。所以(yi)在(zai)(zai)少正卯與(yu)孔(kong)(kong)子(zi)爭奪弟子(zi)時,使(shi)“孔(kong)(kong)子(zi)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)門(men)(men)三盈(ying)三虛(xu)(xu)”,唯有顏(yan)回未離孔(kong)(kong)門(men)(men)半步,因而后人(ren)(ren)評價說:“顏(yan)淵獨(du)知孔(kong)(kong)子(zi)圣也(ye)。”(《論(lun)衡·講瑞》)
顏回求學期(qi)間,曾(ceng)于(yu)魯(lu)定公八年(公元前502年),娶宋國(guo)女(nv)子戴氏為妻。次年生子顏歆。
魯定公(gong)七年(公(gong)元前503年)時,顏(yan)回西游(you)至衛,由衛至宋。《說(shuo)苑·敬慎》載:“顏(yan)回將西游(you),問孔(kong)子(zi)(zi)曰:‘何(he)以為(wei)身(shen)?'孔(kong)子(zi)(zi)曰:‘恭敬忠信,可以為(wei)身(shen)。恭則免(mian)于(yu)(yu)眾,敬則人愛之,忠則人與之,信則人恃(shi)之。人所愛,人所與,人所恃(shi),必免(mian)于(yu)(yu)患矣。可以臨國(guo)家,何(he)況于(yu)(yu)身(shen)乎(hu)?故(gu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)比(bi)數而(er)比(bi)諫,不(bu)(bu)(bu)亦(yi)遠乎(hu)?不(bu)(bu)(bu)修(xiu)中而(er)修(xiu)外(wai),不(bu)(bu)(bu)亦(yi)反(fan)乎(hu)?不(bu)(bu)(bu)先(xian)慮事,臨難乃謀,不(bu)(bu)(bu)亦(yi)晚乎(hu)?”,《孔(kong)子(zi)(zi)家語》、《莊子(zi)(zi)》兩書(shu)對顏(yan)回將西游(you)也有(you)記載,只是文字略有(you)不(bu)(bu)(bu)同。
顏(yan)(yan)(yan)回西(xi)游(you)的(de)目(mu)的(de),主(zhu)要是(shi)去宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)向戴氏(shi)求婚(hun)。據顏(yan)(yan)(yan)景(jing)琴著《顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)評傳》考證,顏(yan)(yan)(yan)回途經衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo),是(shi)因為(wei)其本(ben)家(jia)顏(yan)(yan)(yan)濁鄒(zou)在衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)的(de)同宗顏(yan)(yan)(yan)濁鄒(zou)在衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)有一(yi)(yi)定的(de)社會地位和影(ying)響(xiang),為(wei)衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)賢大(da)夫,而且(qie)家(jia)資(zi)豐厚,后來孔子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)周游(you)列國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo),初(chu)到(dao)(dao)衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)時,就住在他家(jia)中。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)到(dao)(dao)衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)并不是(shi)他最終(zhong)的(de)目(mu)的(de)地。按《家(jia)語》說,應是(shi)經衛而到(dao)(dao)宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去。若顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)直(zhi)接由魯(lu)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)到(dao)(dao)宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去,便不能(neng)說“顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)將西(xi)游(you)”,因為(wei)宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)在魯(lu)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)的(de)西(xi)南(nan)方(fang),而不是(shi)在西(xi)方(fang)。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)到(dao)(dao)宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去的(de)目(mu)的(de),很可能(neng)與其婚(hun)姻(yin)有關。顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)之所以先(xian)到(dao)(dao)衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)而后到(dao)(dao)宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo),看來顏(yan)(yan)(yan)濁鄒(zou)在其間充當(dang)了(le)月老(lao)的(de)角色,故顏(yan)(yan)(yan)子(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)以到(dao)(dao)衛國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)去游(you)學(xue)為(wei)由,而實(shi)際(ji)上(shang)是(shi)請(qing)顏(yan)(yan)(yan)濁鄒(zou)一(yi)(yi)同前往宋(song)(song)(song)國(guo)(guo)(guo)(guo)。
顏(yan)(yan)回在其人(ren)生的第一(yi)階段(duan),十(shi)三歲入(ru)孔門,用了大約六年的時(shi)間,其學(xue)業基(ji)本已成。東漢郎凱說(shuo):昔顏(yan)(yan)子“十(shi)八,天下歸仁”。十(shi)九(jiu)歲向宋戴氏求婚,二(er)十(shi)歲與戴氏完婚,二(er)十(shi)一(yi)歲生子顏(yan)(yan)歆。
關于顏(yan)回(hui)(hui)婚(hun)配的(de)(de)年(nian)齡,學(xue)術界(jie)尚有不同的(de)(de)說法(fa)。一(yi)說三十(shi)(shi)(shi)歲娶(qu)戴氏。但據《周禮·地官》曰:“媒氏掌萬民之判。凡(fan)男女(nv)(nv)自成名以(yi)(yi)上皆書年(nian)、月、日,名焉,令(ling)男三十(shi)(shi)(shi)而娶(qu),女(nv)(nv)二(er)(er)十(shi)(shi)(shi)而嫁。”意思是(shi)說,媒人掌管天(tian)下萬民男女(nv)(nv)結(jie)合為(wei)夫婦的(de)(de)事,一(yi)般是(shi)在(zai)男孩或女(nv)(nv)孩滿(man)三個月之后就登記(ji)在(zai)冊。如果(guo)男滿(man)三十(shi)(shi)(shi)歲,女(nv)(nv)滿(man)二(er)(er)十(shi)(shi)(shi)歲還沒(mei)婚(hun)配,則由(you)官媒作主令(ling)其嫁、娶(qu)某人,個人與家長便失去了選擇的(de)(de)自由(you)。春(chun)秋時期戰亂(luan)頻繁(fan),為(wei)爭(zheng)霸天(tian)下,各諸侯國大都把《周禮》規定的(de)(de)最高嫁娶(qu)年(nian)齡界(jie)限向前提,以(yi)(yi)便迅(xun)速(su)繁(fan)衍人口(kou)。到顏(yan)回(hui)(hui)所(suo)處的(de)(de)春(chun)秋末期,越國已下令(ling):“凡(fan)男二(er)(er)十(shi)(shi)(shi),女(nv)(nv)十(shi)(shi)(shi)七(qi)不婚(hun)者,有罪及父母。”孔子是(shi)十(shi)(shi)(shi)九歲娶(qu)亓(qi)官氏的(de)(de),顏(yan)回(hui)(hui)晚一(yi)年(nian),應是(shi)二(er)(er)十(shi)(shi)(shi)歲婚(hun)配,而不是(shi)三十(shi)(shi)(shi)歲。
孔子夸贊(zan)顏(yan)回(hui)(hui):“有(you)顏(yan)回(hui)(hui)者(zhe)好學,不(bu)遷怒,不(bu)貳過(guo),不(bu)幸短命(ming)死矣。”
顏(yan)(yan)回隨師周(zhou)游(you)列國時,其子(zi)顏(yan)(yan)歆已五歲。他(ta)還(huan)是孔(kong)子(zi)的弟子(zi)。
據(ju)《兗(yan)州府志》(清乾隆三(san)十五年刻本(ben))記載:“顏(yan)子故居,在(zai)滋(zi)陽縣署(shu)前小巷(xiang)(今兗(yan)州城內文廟小學(xue)(xue)),相傳即(ji)顏(yan)子陋(lou)巷(xiang)也。”“城南八里,有(you)(you)顏(yan)子廓外田名曰陋(lou)地。”《縣志》記載:顏(yan)子“邑(yi)人,久祀學(xue)(xue)宮,并有(you)(you)陋(lou)巷(xiang)遺跡(ji)”。在(zai)很早以前,城中就修建了紀念(nian)他(ta)的顏(yan)子閣,城西顏(yan)家(jia)村建有(you)(you)顏(yan)氏(shi)家(jia)廟。
《論(lun)語》、《家語》、《史記》等書中說,顏(yan)回(hui)出(chu)身(shen)于貧苦的(de)農(nong)民家庭(ting),身(shen)居茅(mao)屋陋(lou)巷,用(yong)竹筒子(zi)當碗盛(sheng)飯,用(yong)瓢喝(he)水,但他(ta)人窮(qiong)(qiong)志不窮(qiong)(qiong),安于其(qi)樂。他(ta)是(shi)孔子(zi)得(de)意(yi)的(de)高(gao)材弟子(zi),少孔子(zi)三十歲。自幼勤奮好(hao)學,孔子(zi)說他(ta)能“聞一知十”。
一(yi)次(ci),顏回(hui)請教孔子(zi)說:“我認為一(yi)個人(ren)(ren)(ren)雖然出(chu)身貧(pin)苦,但應(ying)(ying)安分守已,不(bu)以(yi)貧(pin)為恥;自(zi)(zi)己(ji)雖是無職無權的卑(bei)賤者,但不(bu)要自(zi)(zi)卑(bei),不(bu)應(ying)(ying)在貴人(ren)(ren)(ren)面前低(di)三下(xia)四;不(bu)要依(yi)靠擺(bai)架子(zi)耍(shua)威(wei)風(feng)來樹立自(zi)(zi)己(ji)的威(wei)望(wang);與別人(ren)(ren)(ren)交(jiao)朋友要與他一(yi)輩子(zi)共患難(nan)。把(ba)這(zhe)樣幾條當做待(dai)人(ren)(ren)(ren)處世的標準你看如何?”孔子(zi)說:“好呀!如果一(yi)個人(ren)(ren)(ren)雖貧(pin),不(bu)在富人(ren)(ren)(ren)面前自(zi)(zi)卑(bei),安于貧(pin),這(zhe)樣就(jiu)沒有其他欲(yu)望(wang);自(zi)(zi)己(ji)沒有地位(wei)也不(bu)覺得比貴人(ren)(ren)(ren)低(di)下(xia),這(zhe)樣自(zi)(zi)然謙和;有禮貌,平等待(dai)人(ren)(ren)(ren),不(bu)裝腔作勢,就(jiu)會自(zi)(zi)然受人(ren)(ren)(ren)尊敬,不(bu)脫(tuo)離群(qun)眾;交(jiao)朋友,講忠義,共患難(nan),不(bu)說過(guo)頭(tou)話,不(bu)辦過(guo)頭(tou)的事,就(jiu)一(yi)定(ding)能搞(gao)好團結(jie)。如果你能做到這(zhe)樣幾點(dian),就(jiu)是上古(gu)的圣人(ren)(ren)(ren)也不(bu)過(guo)如此。”
顏(yan)回(hui)言行一(yi)(yi)致,孔子(zi)稱(cheng)贊他(ta)的德(de)仁,說他(ta)“不遷怒,不貳過”,“其心三月(yue)不違仁”,“善哉(zai)回(hui)也”。據傳說,當(dang)時有(you)(you)的同窗認為孔子(zi)對顏(yan)回(hui)的評價過高(gao),很不服(fu)(fu)氣(qi)。有(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)天,他(ta)們出了(le)個(ge)點子(zi),想考驗(yan)顏(yan)回(hui)一(yi)(yi)下。見(jian)顏(yan)回(hui)走(zou)來(lai),就(jiu)派人(ren)繞(rao)道(dao)于前,在路上(shang)偷偷放(fang)下一(yi)(yi)錠金(jin)子(zi),然后躲在一(yi)(yi)邊,遠(yuan)遠(yuan)地看(kan)他(ta)如何處(chu)置(zhi)。顏(yan)回(hui)突然發(fa)(fa)現了(le)路上(shang)閃閃發(fa)(fa)光(guang)的金(jin)子(zi),拾起來(lai)一(yi)(yi)看(kan),不禁一(yi)(yi)愣,上(shang)面清清楚(chu)楚(chu)地寫著一(yi)(yi)行小字(zi):“天賜顏(yan)回(hui)一(yi)(yi)錠金(jin)”。他(ta)搖了(le)搖頭,把金(jin)子(zi)翻過來(lai),在另一(yi)(yi)面也寫了(le)一(yi)(yi)行字(zi):“外財不發(fa)(fa)命窮人(ren)”。寫完后,把金(jin)子(zi)仍放(fang)在原處(chu),拂袖而去。這件事(shi)很快傳開了(le),大家從(cong)心里(li)更(geng)加佩服(fu)(fu)顏(yan)回(hui)。
孔子(zi)還說過(guo):“我(wo)自(zi)從有了顏回,在(zai)他的影響下,弟子(zi)更(geng)加(jia)親(qin)密團結(jie)”。但由(you)于(yu)顏回用(yong)腦(nao)過(guo)度,二十九歲時,頭發全(quan)白(bai),不幸(xing)在(zai)四十歲病死(si)。顏回死(si)后,歷(li)代統治者(zhe)都為(wei)他封(feng)官晉爵(jue),唐(tang)朝贈封(feng)他為(wei)兗(yan)(yan)(yan)公,宋(song)朝封(feng)他為(wei)兗(yan)(yan)(yan)國(guo)公,元朝封(feng)他為(wei)兗(yan)(yan)(yan)國(guo)復圣(sheng)公,明嘉靖九年又(you)尊為(wei)復圣(sheng)顏子(zi)。
顏氏之儒
顏(yan)回通過(guo)自(zi)己講學授徒(tu),傳授儒學六經;通過(guo)協(xie)助(zhu)孔子(zi)整理古(gu)代典(dian)籍,逐漸擴大了自(zi)己的(de)影響(xiang),形成了儒家的(de)一(yi)個宗派——顏(yan)氏之儒。
《韓非(fei)子(zi)(zi)·顯(xian)學》指出:自孔子(zi)(zi)死后,儒(ru)(ru)分八派(pai),“顏(yan)氏之(zhi)儒(ru)(ru)”是其中的(de)(de)一派(pai)。后世儒(ru)(ru)學專(zhuan)家(jia)大多認為韓非(fei)子(zi)(zi)所說的(de)(de)顏(yan)氏之(zhi)儒(ru)(ru),是指顏(yan)回(hui)弟子(zi)(zi)在繼承顏(yan)子(zi)(zi)思想的(de)(de)基(ji)礎上發展起來的(de)(de)儒(ru)(ru)學支派(pai)。重于立德
顏(yan)回之(zhi)(zhi)德是顏(yan)回留給后(hou)世最豐厚(hou),也是最不(bu)(bu)(bu)朽的文(wen)化遺產(chan)。《左傳·襄公二十四年(nian)》:“豹聞(wen)之(zhi)(zhi),大上有立(li)(li)(li)德,其次有立(li)(li)(li)功,其次有立(li)(li)(li)言。雖久(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)廢,此之(zhi)(zhi)謂不(bu)(bu)(bu)朽。”顏(yan)回的不(bu)(bu)(bu)朽,在于其重立(li)(li)(li)德,后(hou)世稱(cheng)他為“復圣”,便是對其重于立(li)(li)(li)德的肯(ken)定。顏(yan)回之(zhi)(zhi)德的核心是“仁”,他把孔(kong)子的“仁”,落(luo)實(shi)于個人(ren)的行動中,而不(bu)(bu)(bu)是停留在口頭上。顏(yan)回以其高尚(shang)的道德人(ren)格影(ying)響社會,啟(qi)迪(di)后(hou)世。
天人合一
顏(yan)回的(de)(de)言行(xing)體現了他善于領略天(tian)地造(zao)化的(de)(de)力量(liang),尊重(zhong)客(ke)觀規(gui)律(lv),順應自然,但又重(zhong)視人(ren)的(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)動性(xing),守道(dao)而(er)不移其志。顏(yan)回有入士(shi)為相的(de)(de)愿望,希望通過(guo)人(ren)的(de)(de)努(nu)力,達(da)到“無伐(fa)善,無施勞”。在條件(jian)不成熟時(shi),能(neng)(neng)主動退讓,待時(shi)而(er)行(xing)。“用(yong)之(zhi)(zhi)則行(xing),舍之(zhi)(zhi)則藏”,居陋巷簞食(shi)瓢(piao)飲(yin)不改其樂(le),把自我化于自然之(zhi)(zhi)中。“同于大(da)(da)道(dao)”(《莊(zhuang)子·大(da)(da)宗師》),使自我行(xing)動符合客(ke)觀規(gui)律(lv)。
辯證思維
事物發(fa)展到極限會(hui)走向反面(mian),這是(shi)辯證法的觀點之(zhi)(zhi)一。顏回(hui)(hui)從(cong)東(dong)(dong)野(ye)畢不(bu)(bu)愛惜馬(ma)力(li)推(tui)知其(qi)(qi)馬(ma)將逃跑。魯(lu)定公問(wen)何以知其(qi)(qi)馬(ma)將逃跑時,顏回(hui)(hui)說(shuo):“臣(chen)以政知之(zhi)(zhi)。昔舜(shun)巧(qiao)于(yu)使民(min),而造父(fu)巧(qiao)于(yu)使馬(ma),舜(shun)不(bu)(bu)窮(qiong)(qiong)(qiong)其(qi)(qi)民(min),造父(fu)不(bu)(bu)窮(qiong)(qiong)(qiong)其(qi)(qi)馬(ma);是(shi)以舜(shun)無(wu)失民(min),造父(fu)無(wu)失馬(ma)也。今東(dong)(dong)野(ye)畢之(zhi)(zhi)馭,上車執轡,銜(xian)體正矣(yi);步驟馳騁,朝禮畢矣(yi);歷險致遠,馬(ma)力(li)盡矣(yi)。然(ran)猶求馬(ma)不(bu)(bu)已(yi),是(shi)以知之(zhi)(zhi)也。”定公問(wen):“善(shan)!可得少進乎?”顏回(hui)(hui)答:“臣(chen)聞之(zhi)(zhi),鳥窮(qiong)(qiong)(qiong)則(ze)啄,獸窮(qiong)(qiong)(qiong)則(ze)攫(jue),人窮(qiong)(qiong)(qiong)則(ze)詐。自古及(ji)今,未(wei)有窮(qiong)(qiong)(qiong)其(qi)(qi)下而無(wu)危(wei)者也。”(《荀子·哀公》)
顏(yan)回在學(xue)(xue)習和弘揚孔子所創立的(de)儒(ru)家學(xue)(xue)說的(de)過程(cheng)中,總(zong)是殫精竭思,傾(qing)注全部心血,再加(jia)上“簞(dan)食瓢飲”的(de)困(kun)(kun)苦生活,這種狀況嚴重地損害了他(ta)的(de)健康(kang)。魯哀公十(shi)(shi)四年(公元前481年)夏(xia)歷八月二十(shi)(shi)三日,一代儒(ru)學(xue)(xue)宗師(shi)顏(yan)子不(bu)幸(xing)病逝,給世(shi)人留下了永久(jiu)的(de)遺(yi)憾(han)。由于(yu)他(ta)的(de)家境十(shi)(shi)分困(kun)(kun)難,以(yi)至無(wu)力按照當時(shi)有關禮儀殯葬(zang),最后經他(ta)的(de)父親顏(yan)路四處(chu)籌措,并在其弟子及同門好友的(de)幫助下,才勉(mian)強完(wan)成(cheng)了葬(zang)禮。
《孔子家語》中有(you)顏回一篇。據說顏回非常聰明,深曉推(tui)理(li)之術。他主張為(wei)(wei)人要謹慎(shen),克己(ji),多(duo)注意(yi)自己(ji)的(de)行為(wei)(wei)是(shi)否正確……在(zai)孔教中顏回得到特別的(de)尊重。但(dan)是(shi)孔子門(men)下(xia)的(de)學生,有(you)聰明才智的(de)一樣有(you)很(hen)多(duo)--像子路(lu)等人都可以為(wei)(wei)代表。