"點“姓是1991年(nian)在江蘇南京(jing)一(yi)家(jia)新創(chuang)的姓氏。該姓氏據說《太平圖(tu)話姓氏綜》上(shang)就有收錄,但歷史上(shang)”點“是“點”的繁體字。
據載,在1991年江蘇(su)蘇(su)州的(de)(de)(de)一個典型的(de)(de)(de)“421家庭(ting)”中,出現了姓“點”的(de)(de)(de)孩子,這個“點”姓也一般被認為是1991年所知人數最少的(de)(de)(de)姓。
關(guan)于這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還有一(yi)(yi)段耐人尋(xun)味的(de)(de)(de)(de)故事。在這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)“421家庭”中有爺爺、奶(nai)奶(nai)、外(wai)(wai)公、外(wai)(wai)婆四(si)位老人和一(yi)(yi)對夫(fu)妻、一(yi)(yi)個(ge)小(xiao)孩(hai)。爺爺姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,奶(nai)奶(nai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋(song),他(ta)們(men)生(sheng)了個(ge)兒(er)子,按(an)照傳(chuan)統習(xi)慣(guan),這(zhe)(zhe)兒(er)子也就承(cheng)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,我們(men)姑(gu)(gu)且叫(jiao)(jiao)他(ta)蔣男(nan)(nan);外(wai)(wai)公姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian),外(wai)(wai)婆姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他(ta)們(men)生(sheng)個(ge)女(nv)兒(er),也是依(yi)照傳(chuan)統,女(nv)兒(er)承(cheng)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)我們(men)姑(gu)(gu)且叫(jiao)(jiao)她卞(bian)女(nv)。蔣男(nan)(nan)和卞(bian)女(nv)后(hou)來(lai)結成夫(fu)妻,之后(hou)就生(sheng)下一(yi)(yi)個(ge)男(nan)(nan)孩(hai)。這(zhe)(zhe)男(nan)(nan)孩(hai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)出生(sheng)使(shi)全(quan)家都很(hen)高興,但在讓孩(hai)子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么(me)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)問題上出現了分歧。爺爺希望遵從傳(chuan)統承(cheng)其父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣;外(wai)(wai)公認為舊習(xi)慣(guan)應該破除,最(zui)好依(yi)母(mu)(mu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian);外(wai)(wai)婆則反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)一(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)小(xiao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)時候被人家叫(jiao)(jiao)“小(xiao)卞(bian)”,大了被人喊(han)作“大卞(bian)”,有把年紀了也不過稱個(ge)“老卞(bian)”,很(hen)不雅觀,不如來(lai)個(ge)徹底的(de)(de)(de)(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外(wai)(wai)婆的(de)(de)(de)(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而奶(nai)奶(nai)卻說,即(ji)使(shi)從母(mu)(mu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋(song)。全(quan)家四(si)個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都想(xiang)讓這(zhe)(zhe)惟一(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)男(nan)(nan)孩(hai)為自己的(de)(de)(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接續香火”。后(hou)來(lai),他(ta)們(men)覺(jue)得“接續香火”的(de)(de)(de)(de)想(xiang)法太陳舊,共(gong)同商議孩(hai)子取個(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點”。
因(yin)為這個字(zi)(zi)(zi)的(de)(de)結構是上邊一個占有的(de)(de)占字(zi)(zi)(zi),底(di)下四(si)(si)點(dian)(dian),四(si)(si)點(dian)(dian)分別代表蔣、宋、卞、沈四(si)(si)位老人的(de)(de)姓。對(dui)老人而言,“點(dian)(dian)”表示四(si)(si)姓(家)共同占有這個孩子;對(dui)孩子來說,“點(dian)(dian)”表示占有四(si)(si)姓老人的(de)(de)共同關愛。等商定以后,接著為這孩子取(qu)名“點(dian)(dian)佳浩”,并(bing)到戶籍管理部門登記備案,使他從此有了(le)合(he)法的(de)(de)名字(zi)(zi)(zi)。
我(wo)們知道它(ta)是(shi)一個(ge)新創的姓(xing)(xing)氏。那么,歷史上有(you)(you)(you)沒有(you)(you)(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)呢(ni)?其(qi)實(shi)是(shi)有(you)(you)(you)的,但(dan)與(yu)這個(ge)點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)有(you)(you)(you)所不同。歷史上的點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)繁體,據說(shuo)《太平(ping)圖(tu)話姓(xing)(xing)氏綜》上就(jiu)(jiu)有(you)(you)(you)收錄。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”字簡化(hua)為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)它(ta)與(yu)內涵“四(si)(si)家共有(you)(you)(you)”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)(you)(you)區別的,至少可(ke)(ke)以說(shuo)是(shi)姓(xing)(xing)源不同。正因如(ru)此,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)可(ke)(ke)寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”卻不能(neng)寫(xie)成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”。若把(ba)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”寫(xie)成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”,也就(jiu)(jiu)把(ba)“四(si)(si)姓(xing)(xing)共有(you)(you)(you)”的美(mei)好愿(yuan)望改沒了。
歷(li)史上曾有(you)(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing),但寫作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,據說《太平圖話(hua)姓(xing)氏綜》上就有(you)(you)收(shou)錄(lu)。后來,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”簡(jian)化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但內涵與“四(si)姓(xing)共(gong)有(you)(you)”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳浩(hao)(hao)”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”有(you)(you)區別(bie)。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)可(ke)寫作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳浩(hao)(hao)”卻不能寫成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳浩(hao)(hao)”,不然“四(si)姓(xing)共(gong)有(you)(you)”的美好(hao)愿望就沒了。