"點(dian)“姓是(shi)1991年(nian)在江蘇南京(jing)一家(jia)新創的姓氏(shi)(shi)。該姓氏(shi)(shi)據說《太平(ping)圖話姓氏(shi)(shi)綜》上就有收錄,但歷史(shi)上”點(dian)“是(shi)“點(dian)”的繁(fan)體(ti)字。
據(ju)載,在1991年(nian)江蘇(su)(su)蘇(su)(su)州的(de)(de)(de)一個典型的(de)(de)(de)“421家庭(ting)”中,出現了姓“點”的(de)(de)(de)孩(hai)子,這個“點”姓也一般(ban)被認為是1991年(nian)所知人數最少的(de)(de)(de)姓。
關于這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還(huan)有一(yi)(yi)段耐人(ren)尋味的故(gu)事。在(zai)這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)“421家庭”中有爺爺、奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)、外公、外婆(po)四位老人(ren)和一(yi)(yi)對夫妻、一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)小(xiao)孩。爺爺姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋,他們(men)生了個(ge)(ge)(ge)兒(er)子(zi),按照傳統習慣,這(zhe)(zhe)兒(er)子(zi)也就承(cheng)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,我們(men)姑且(qie)叫他蔣男(nan);外公姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian),外婆(po)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈(shen),他們(men)生個(ge)(ge)(ge)女(nv)(nv)兒(er),也是依(yi)照傳統,女(nv)(nv)兒(er)承(cheng)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)我們(men)姑且(qie)叫她(ta)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)女(nv)(nv)。蔣男(nan)和卞(bian)(bian)(bian)女(nv)(nv)后來(lai)結成夫妻,之后就生下(xia)一(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)男(nan)孩。這(zhe)(zhe)男(nan)孩的出(chu)生使全家都(dou)很高(gao)興,但在(zai)讓(rang)孩子(zi)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的問題上出(chu)現了分歧。爺爺希(xi)望遵從(cong)(cong)傳統承(cheng)其父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣;外公認為(wei)舊習慣應該破除(chu),最好依(yi)母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian);外婆(po)則反(fan)對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)一(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)小(xiao)的時候(hou)被人(ren)家叫“小(xiao)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,大了被人(ren)喊作“大卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,有把年(nian)紀了也不過稱(cheng)個(ge)(ge)(ge)“老卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,很不雅觀,不如來(lai)個(ge)(ge)(ge)徹底(di)的,姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外婆(po)的沈(shen)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)卻說,即(ji)使從(cong)(cong)母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋。全家四個(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都(dou)想(xiang)讓(rang)這(zhe)(zhe)惟一(yi)(yi)的男(nan)孩為(wei)自己的姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接(jie)續香火(huo)”。后來(lai),他們(men)覺得“接(jie)續香火(huo)”的想(xiang)法太陳舊,共(gong)同(tong)商議孩子(zi)取個(ge)(ge)(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點(dian)”。
因為(wei)這(zhe)個(ge)字(zi)的(de)(de)(de)結(jie)構是上邊一個(ge)占有(you)的(de)(de)(de)占字(zi),底(di)下四點(dian),四點(dian)分別代表(biao)蔣、宋、卞(bian)、沈四位老人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)姓。對老人(ren)(ren)而言,“點(dian)”表(biao)示四姓(家)共同占有(you)這(zhe)個(ge)孩子;對孩子來說(shuo),“點(dian)”表(biao)示占有(you)四姓老人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)共同關愛。等商定以后,接著為(wei)這(zhe)孩子取名(ming)“點(dian)佳浩”,并到戶(hu)籍(ji)管理部門登(deng)記備案,使(shi)他從此有(you)了合法的(de)(de)(de)名(ming)字(zi)。
我們(men)知道(dao)它是(shi)一個(ge)新創的姓(xing)氏。那么,歷史上(shang)(shang)有(you)(you)沒有(you)(you)點(dian)(dian)姓(xing)呢(ni)?其實是(shi)有(you)(you)的,但(dan)與這個(ge)點(dian)(dian)姓(xing)有(you)(you)所不同(tong)。歷史上(shang)(shang)的點(dian)(dian)姓(xing)寫(xie)(xie)(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)繁體,據說《太(tai)平圖話姓(xing)氏綜》上(shang)(shang)就有(you)(you)收錄。“點(dian)(dian)”字簡化為“點(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)它與內涵(han)“四家共有(you)(you)”的“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”的“點(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)(you)區別的,至少可(ke)以說是(shi)姓(xing)源不同(tong)。正因如此,“點(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)可(ke)寫(xie)(xie)(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”卻不能寫(xie)(xie)(xie)成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”。若把“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”寫(xie)(xie)(xie)成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”,也就把“四姓(xing)共有(you)(you)”的美好愿望改沒了。
歷史上(shang)曾有點姓,但寫作“點”,據說《太平(ping)圖(tu)話姓氏(shi)綜》上(shang)就(jiu)有收錄。后來(lai),“點”簡(jian)化(hua)為“點”,但內涵與“四姓共(gong)有”的“點佳浩(hao)”的“點”有區別。“點”姓可寫作“點”,“點佳浩(hao)”卻不(bu)能寫成“點佳浩(hao)”,不(bu)然“四姓共(gong)有”的美好愿(yuan)望就(jiu)沒(mei)了。