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成語典故

從前，齊國(guo)有一(yi)對很要(yao)(yao)好的(de)(de)朋(peng)友(you)，一(yi)個(ge)叫管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，另(ling)外一(yi)個(ge)叫鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)。年輕(qing)的(de)(de)時候(hou)，管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)家里(li)很窮，又(you)要(yao)(yao)奉養母(mu)(mu)親(qin)，鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)知(zhi)道(dao)了(le)(le)，就找管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)一(yi)起投資做(zuo)生(sheng)(sheng)意。做(zuo)生(sheng)(sheng)意的(de)(de)時候(hou)，因(yin)為管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)沒有錢(qian)(qian)，所以本錢(qian)(qian)幾乎都是(shi)(shi)鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)拿(na)(na)出(chu)來(lai)投資的(de)(de)，可(ke)是(shi)(shi)，當賺了(le)(le)錢(qian)(qian)以后，管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)卻拿(na)(na)的(de)(de)比鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)還多，鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)的(de)(de)仆人(ren)(ren)看了(le)(le)就說(shuo)：這(zhe)個(ge)管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)真奇(qi)怪，本錢(qian)(qian)拿(na)(na)的(de)(de)比我(wo)(wo)們主人(ren)(ren)少，分錢(qian)(qian)的(de)(de)時候(hou)卻拿(na)(na)的(de)(de)比我(wo)(wo)們主人(ren)(ren)還多！鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)卻對仆人(ren)(ren)說(shuo)：不可(ke)以這(zhe)么說(shuo)！管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)家里(li)窮又(you)要(yao)(yao)奉養母(mu)(mu)親(qin)，多拿(na)(na)一(yi)點(dian)沒有關系的(de)(de)。有一(yi)次，管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)和鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)一(yi)起去打仗(zhang)，每(mei)次進(jin)攻的(de)(de)時候(hou)，管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)都躲在最后面，大(da)家就罵管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)說(shuo)：管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)是(shi)(shi)一(yi)個(ge)貪生(sheng)(sheng)怕死的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)！鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)馬上替管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)說(shuo)話：你們誤會管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)了(le)(le)，他不是(shi)(shi)怕死，他得留著(zhu)他的(de)(de)命去照(zhao)顧老母(mu)(mu)親(qin)呀！管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)聽到(dao)之后說(shuo)：生(sheng)(sheng)我(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)父母(mu)(mu)，了(le)(le)解我(wo)(wo)的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)可(ke)是(shi)(shi)鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)呀！后來(lai)，齊國(guo)的(de)(de)國(guo)王(wang)(wang)死掉了(le)(le)，大(da)王(wang)(wang)子諸當上了(le)(le)國(guo)王(wang)(wang)，諸每(mei)天(tian)吃喝玩樂不做(zuo)事，鮑(bao)(bao)(bao)叔(shu)(shu)(shu)牙(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)(ya)預感齊國(guo)一(yi)定會發生(sheng)(sheng)內亂，就帶(dai)著(zhu)小(xiao)王(wang)(wang)子小(xiao)白逃到(dao)莒國(guo)，管(guan)(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)則帶(dai)著(zhu)小(xiao)王(wang)(wang)子糾逃到(dao)魯(lu)國(guo)。

不久之后，大王(wang)子(zi)諸被人殺死，齊(qi)國(guo)(guo)真(zhen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)發生了(le)內亂，管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)想殺掉小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)，讓(rang)糾(jiu)能順利當上(shang)(shang)國(guo)(guo)王(wang)，可惜(xi)管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)在暗(an)算小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)時候(hou)，把箭射偏了(le)，小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)沒死，后來(lai)(lai)，鮑(bao)(bao)叔(shu)牙(ya)和小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)比(bi)管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)和糾(jiu)還早回到齊(qi)國(guo)(guo)，小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)就當上(shang)(shang)了(le)齊(qi)國(guo)(guo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)國(guo)(guo)王(wang)。小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)當上(shang)(shang)國(guo)(guo)王(wang)以后，決(jue)定封鮑(bao)(bao)叔(shu)牙(ya)為宰(zai)相，鮑(bao)(bao)叔(shu)牙(ya)卻(que)(que)對小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)說(shuo)：管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)各方面都(dou)比(bi)我強(qiang)，應該(gai)請他(ta)來(lai)(lai)當宰(zai)相才對呀！小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)一(yi)聽：管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)要殺我，他(ta)是我的(de)(de)(de)(de)仇人，你居然叫我請他(ta)來(lai)(lai)當宰(zai)相！鮑(bao)(bao)叔(shu)牙(ya)卻(que)(que)說(shuo)：這不能怪他(ta)，他(ta)是為了(le)幫他(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)主人糾(jiu)才這么做的(de)(de)(de)(de)呀！小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)聽了(le)鮑(bao)(bao)叔(shu)牙(ya)的(de)(de)(de)(de)話，請管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)回來(lai)(lai)當宰(zai)相，而管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)也真(zhen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)幫小(xiao)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)把齊(qi)國(guo)(guo)治理的(de)(de)(de)(de)非常好呢(ni)！后來(lai)(lai)，大家(jia)在稱贊(zan)朋友(you)之間有(you)很好的(de)(de)(de)(de)友(you)誼(yi)時，就會說(shuo)他(ta)們(men)是“管(guan)(guan)鮑(bao)(bao)之交”。

管鮑之交是什么意思

管鮑之交：指(zhi)春秋時齊人管仲和鮑叔牙相知最深，后常比喻交情深厚的朋(peng)友(you)。

管鮑之交的出處

成語出自《史記·管仲(zhong)(zhong)傳》：“少(shao)時常(chang)(chang)與(yu)鮑叔(shu)牙游；鮑叔(shu)知其賢。管仲(zhong)(zhong)貧(pin)苦(ku)；常(chang)(chang)欺(qi)鮑叔(shu)；鮑叔(shu)終善遇之；不以(yi)為言，管仲(zhong)(zhong)曰：生我(wo)者(zhe)父母；知我(wo)者(zhe)鮑子也(ye)。”

成語解析

管鮑之(zhi)交(jiao)，偏正式；作賓語；含褒義。

近義詞：生死之交。

反義詞：點頭之交。

管鮑之交給我們帶來了怎樣的啟示

管鮑之交一直被譽為交友的最高境界，成為被歷代傳誦的佳話。可見真正的朋友應當患難與共，為了國家的利益能不計個人得失同心協力。就像桓公不計較私仇，任用管仲終成霸業，其使賢任能之舉，也對后人產生了積極的影響。不(bu)(bu)(bu)計較個人私利，有寬以待人的(de)胸懷，有至(zhi)(zhi)真(zhen)至(zhi)(zhi)誠(cheng)(cheng)、甘(gan)愿吃虧的(de)精神；在同事(shi)有某種過(guo)失(shi)或對不(bu)(bu)(bu)住自己(ji)時，不(bu)(bu)(bu)惡意相(xiang)諷，而善意相(xiang)諱，同時又(you)不(bu)(bu)(bu)為小人讒(chan)言而左右；能像(xiang)管仲(zhong)那(nei)樣，在公事(shi)國(guo)事(shi)上盡(jin)職(zhi)盡(jin)責，在原則(ze)問(wen)題(ti)上不(bu)(bu)(bu)以恩報德，不(bu)(bu)(bu)私其友，剛正不(bu)(bu)(bu)阿；如果互相(xiang)之(zhi)間(jian)都(dou)能夠情同管鮑，多一(yi)些理解，多一(yi)點真(zhen)誠(cheng)(cheng)，那(nei)么(me)我們前進道路上的(de)困難(nan)就會少(shao)一(yi)些。

相關人物

管仲

管仲，春(chun)秋(qiu)時齊(qi)(qi)國政治，名夷吾(wu)，字仲(zhong)(zhong)，亦稱管(guan)(guan)敬仲(zhong)(zhong)。據(ju)說(shuo)他早年經(jing)營(ying)商業(ye)(ye)，后從事政治活動。在(zai)齊(qi)(qi)國公子(zi)小白（即(ji)(ji)齊(qi)(qi)桓(huan)公）與公子(zi)糾(jiu)爭(zheng)奪君位的(de)斗爭(zheng)中(zhong)，管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)曾(ceng)支持公子(zi)糾(jiu)。小白取(qu)得君位后，不計前嫌，重(zhong)用管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)；管(guan)(guan)仲(zhong)(zhong)亦輔佐齊(qi)(qi)桓(huan)公，施行(xing)(xing)(xing)改革(ge)。在(zai)政治上，他推行(xing)(xing)(xing)國、野分治的(de)參國伍(wu)鄙(bi)之制，即(ji)(ji)由君主、二世卿(qing)分管(guan)(guan)齊(qi)(qi)國，并(bing)在(zai)國中(zhong)設立(li)各級軍事組織，規定士、農、工、商各行(xing)(xing)(xing)其(qi)業(ye)(ye)；在(zai)經(jing)濟上，實行(xing)(xing)(xing)租(zu)稅改革(ge)，對井田(tian)“相地(di)而(er)衰征”（見先秦租(zu)稅），并(bing)采取(qu)了若干有利于農業(ye)(ye)、手工業(ye)(ye)發展的(de)政策(ce)。

鮑叔牙

鮑叔牙又稱鮑(bao)叔、鮑(bao)子（約(yue)前723或前716～公(gong)元(yuan)前644年），是鮑(bao)敬叔的兒(er)子，春秋(qiu)時(shi)齊(qi)(qi)國大(da)夫，以知人(ren)(ren)著稱。少時(shi)與(yu)管(guan)仲友(you)善，曾一起經商。齊(qi)(qi)襄(xiang)公(gong)亂政，鮑(bao)叔牙隨(sui)公(gong)子小(xiao)白出奔至莒(ju)國，管(guan)仲則隨(sui)公(gong)子糾出奔魯國。齊(qi)(qi)襄(xiang)公(gong)被殺，糾和小(xiao)白爭奪君位，小(xiao)白得勝即位，即齊(qi)(qi)桓公(gong)。桓公(gong)囚管(guan)仲，鮑(bao)叔牙知道管(guan)仲之(zhi)賢，舉薦管(guan)仲替(ti)代自己的職位，而(er)自己則甘居(ju)于管(guan)仲之(zhi)下，齊(qi)(qi)國因(yin)為管(guan)仲的治理而(er)日漸強(qiang)盛(sheng)，被時(shi)人(ren)(ren)譽(yu)為“管(guan)鮑(bao)之(zhi)交(jiao)”、“鮑(bao)子遺風”。